Couple of generations back, where the system of joint family set up was widely prevalent, as the age progressed in the family household, there was no loneliness or the fear of abandonment. The house used to be flooded with granchildren and other family members who was always ready at their call. Now, I could visibly see elderly couple staying alone as their children settled abroad in search of better prospects. Recently, at a wedding in Chennai, I noticed that the majority of attendees were elderly people and the younger generations were visibly absent. Most of the elders who attended had a recent trip abroad and was engaged in, who saw what. I was feeling happy at these dialogues but at the same time could sense some sort of remorse in their voices.
They were a happy family
With children, a couple
Huddling in their small house
In warmth and full of love
As children grew up,
So were their dreams
They dreamt to give them
Whatever they could not achieve
As years passed by
They found the children away
Miles and miles apart
But close to their hearts
Technology made them feel closer
With webcams and chats
But missed the caress and touch
And little odd things
Still they claim
They have done their best
To find better pastures
For their children
Would love to tell u all
Not to miss a mail
Or a phone now and then
For two souls would be waiting for them.
